This is Not How History Remembers Them Intrigue and deception in the antebellum South! THE LIES THAT BIND shines a light on what it means to be a woman, a man, free or enslaved. This is Not How History Remembers Them Intrigue and deception in the antebellum South! THE LIES THAT BIND shines a light on what it means to be a woman, a man, free or enslaved.