I believe God wants you to know that this is not a day for remembering violence, but for memorializing your decision to heal every wound that could cause it. There is one question that no one will ask of those who use violence to make their point: What hurts you so bad that you feel you have to hurt me in order to heal it? This does not condone violence, but it can help us to understand it — and to understand how to stop it. Conversations with God says, “No one does anything inappropriate, given their model of the world.” Embracing the wisdom in those eleven words could change the course of human history. Love, your Friend … Neale Donald Walsch